“Never beg people to stay in your life. There’s no point of holding on to someone who has let go of you.”– Unknown

If you have to beg someone to stay in your life or to be with you, then the relationship is already over. If someone is right for you then you will never have to question their loyalty or love for you and you most definitely will never have to beg them to stay with you.

You may feel like they are the one for you and that you can’t live without them but begging someone to be with you is never the answer. Even if they stay for a while longer, you will always question if they’re going to threaten to leave you again.

As much as it hurts and it may break you, you need to let them go and move on with your life without them. The things that are meant for us will always find their way, as cliché as it sounds.

Here are the reasons why you should never beg anyone to stay in your life…

They’ll Lose Respect for You

Even if you get what you want and they stay with you, they will lose the respect that they once had for you because they will see you as being weak and desperate. Relationships are built on mutual love and respect, so, once the respect is gone, they will never hold you as high in their eyes.

You Deserve More

You shouldn’t have to beg anyone to be with you, you deserve to be loved fully and without question.

You will never have to beg anyone to stay with you if they are the right person because they will have the same love and mutual respect for you and never want to be without you.

You deserve to find true love and someone who you can depend on and who will be there for you through the good and bad times in life.

It Makes the Heartache Worse

Begging someone not to leave you and them leaving anyway just makes the pain even worse because your self-worth and self-esteem will take an even bigger batting. You’ll feel as though you’re worthless, and it’s a waste of time begging someone to stay in your life if they want to leave.

It’s hard to do but you just have to accept that they aren’t right for you and let them leave. Hanging on to someone and something that isn’t there anymore just makes you feel even worse and makes it harder to move on with your life.

They’re not Meant for You if You have to Beg them to Stay

If you have to beg someone to stay in your life then they’re not meant for you. In relationships, feelings should be mutual and the right person wouldn’t put you in a position where you feel unworthy or desperate for their affection or attention. You need to accept that if someone wants to leave you then they are not the right person for you to be with.

It Won’t be the Same Even if They do Stay

Even if you beg someone to stay with you and they end up staying, you will always have that fear and voice in the back of your mind thinking if and when it’s going to happen again. You will lose trust in them and be constantly walking on eggshells out of the fear of potentially losing them again, and this isn’t a healthy and happy way to live your life.

You need to be able to trust your partner fully and you can’t do that if you’re scared they’re potentially going to run away when things get tough. If you have to beg someone to stay with you then you’re not going to feel any more loved because you’ll always be second-guessing and questioning if they’re going to leave you.

You Lose Your Power

Once you beg someone to stay with you then the relationship is destined to fail. You will lose your self-worth and they will have too much power over your Iife and your happiness.

If you have to beg someone to be with you then you will lose your appeal to them because they won’t value you as much and will see you as being a weak person who they can take for granted. If someone wants to leave you then you have to let them go, keep your dignity and self-respect in place and if they’re meant for you then they will come back.

It Will Lower Your Confidence

If you have to resort to begging someone to stay with you then this will have a massive effect on your confidence and self-worth.

You need to remember that the people who truly love you, won’t need begging to stay in your life. If you beg someone to be with you then this is seen as a sign of weakness and desperation, which will make you feel unworthy, unloved and unconfident.

Don’t allow someone to make you feel less than perfect, allowing someone to leave gives you back power and makes you feel stronger and more confident in yourself.

Things Always Happen for a Reason

If you have got to the point in a relationship where you need to beg them to stay with you, then your relationship already isn’t meant to be. If someone wants to leave you then you need to trust in yourself and know that they aren’t meant for you.

Everything in life happens for a reason, even if we can’t see it at the time, you need to let people go who aren’t right for you and you’ll look back in time and be glad that you did because life always has a way of working out in the end.

You Will Find Happiness Alone or with Someone Else

If someone wants to leave you then it’s not worth begging them to stay with you. You may feel like you’re losing the love of your life and you can’t go on without them and you’ll never be happy again, but this isn’t the case.

Even if it breaks your heart and you don’t want to let them go, you have to. You will find happiness again, whether it’s on your own for a while or with someone new. There’s always something better around the corner, you just have to have the courage to trust that things will work out in the end.

Once you beg someone to stay with you then you become too weak and vulnerable, you need to accept that they don’t want to be in your life anymore and move on. Never be afraid of being on your own or being lonely because ultimately you don’t need anyone, you need to learn to be happy and content on your own and not depend on someone else to provide all your happiness.

If someone wants to leave you then they’re not right for you anyway, so cut your losses and look toward the future and all the possibilities that life can bring. Once you begin to love yourself you won’t allow anyone to treat you any less than you deserve.

Begging someone to stay in your life is demoralising and will make you feel worthless and insecure, even if they do end up staying. You’re worthy of being loved fully and by someone who would never threaten or think about leaving you.

You have to go through hard times and heartache sometimes in life to learn, grow, and appreciate the people who treat you right and who want to be in your life. If someone wants to leave you, then let them. Hold your head high, focus on yourself and the people who love you, support you and who will never leave you no matter how tough life gets.

“Never beg for attention or affection as it must be given freely. You can’t force someone to stay in your life as staying is a choice… so, appreciate those who choose you.”– Unknown

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