show up for your partner

There are countless ways that you can show up for your partner to let them know how much they mean to you. However, you don’t need to spend loads of money or do something really extravagant to show them how much you care and appreciate them. Moreover, even the smallest thoughtful effort can make a huge difference to your relationship.

Additionally, making time for each other is vital for a happy and healthy relationship. Therefore, weekly date nights, where you set aside time for each other are vital to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Moreover, showing your partner that they are important to you and worth prioritising will make them feel valued. Furthermore, it will stop you from taking each other for granted and getting too complacent.

Quality time together and making an effort for your partner will help you to stay connected and show them that you appreciate and love them. Therefore, it’s important to do things that your partner enjoys as well as just the things that you want to do. Additionally, surprising your partner with little things now and again will make them feel special and valued. Furthermore, showing up for your partner in new ways will keep the spark alive in your relationship and make them feel valued.

However, if you’re single or in a relationship, it’s important to make an effort for yourself, your friends and your family to show them how much you value them too. All relationships in your life are important and you need to prioritise these as well.

How to Show Up For Your Partner

Here are just a few things you could do to show up for your partner and help to strengthen your relationship…

  1. Give him a massage
  2. Book a trip/night away
  3. Watch his favourite film or television programme
  4. Write him a love letter
  5. Cook his favourite meal or dessert
  6. Get a nice photo framed and put it up
  7. Go see his friends or family with him
  8. Play on the Xbox with him
  9. Get dressed up for him
  10. Try something new sexually that he’s always wanted to do
  11. Run him a bubble bath
  12. Watch the football with him
  13. Book his favourite restaurant
  14. Leave him cute notes around the house
  15. Make his lunch for work
  16. Do something for him if he’s stressed like clean the house or do the washing
  17. Have your phone off all night and chat
  18. Organise something for him that he’s always wanted to try; like canoeing, archery, go-karting, ziplining etc
  19. Book a class you can do together
  20. Buy him a pet
  21. Buy his favourite food or drink
  22. Surprise him with new lingerie
  23. Book tickets for a concert or show he’d love
  24. Show an interest in his passions/dreams
  25. Plan a fun date night for him

Think outside the box and prioritise your partner even if you’re stressed out with work or other commitments. Remember, if someone feels taken for granted the cracks will start to show in your relationship.

Summary

Finally, remember that making time and effort for your partner doesn’t need to be over the top. Something as simple as preparing them a packed lunch for work or spending a couple of hours in the pub watching the match has a bigger effect than you think. Moreover, if your partner feels loved and valued then your life will be happier and you’ll have a healthy relationship together.

Therefore, doing something small frequently to show your partner how much they mean to you is the key to a long and lasting relationship because they will feel special and appreciated.

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