Finding a positive role model in your life is an amazing way of getting closer to reaching your goals. When you expose yourself to positivity and successful people, they will have a positive influence on your life. Therefore, a powerful way to be who you want to be and have what you’ve always wanted is to find someone you admire who has already achieved these things and reached the goals that you want.
Listen to their podcasts, read their books, follow their social media, take recommendations, etc from them. Then you are consuming the things that inspire and motivate them and this will transfer into your own life.
You are what you consume. Therefore, you are what you read, listen to, watch, surround yourself with, etc. So, it’s important to find inspiring and motivating people to look up to and emulate.
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You can pick several different role models for different aspects of your life. For example, you may have a different role model for your health and fitness or body goals. Or, your business and career goals, your relationship goals, your lifestyle goals, and so on.
Find positive role models who have the body you want, the confidence, the house, the opportunity to travel, the successful business, the uplifting and loving relationship, etc. This is inspiring and motivating because if they can do it, guess what!? So can you! Therefore, following them and looking up to them will give you tips and advice on how to fast-track your way to success and reach all your goals.
It’s uplifting to see their social media posts and learn from them. Observe what they’re reading, and listening to, what courses they recommend, etc. They will give you the motivation and encouragement to continue on your journey because the end goal is worth it.
If you pick role models who have the traits you want and have achieved the things you want in your life then it will show you that it is possible for you and your dreams and attainable. Furthermore, it will also keep you on track and help you to make the best decisions for your self-development journey.
To Find Your Role Model Ask Yourself…
- Who inspires me?
- Which person has the career/business I want?
- Who has a body I admire?
- Which people have an amazing relationship?
- Who is confident and loves themselves?
- Which person has the material things I desire?
- Who is kind and gives to others?
- Which person is strong and never gives up?
- Who is uplifting and has amazing energy?
- Which person do I see as being super successful?
Make a list of anyone who comes to mind and start emerging yourself in their social media, books, podcasts, films, courses, etc.
“I think a role model is a mentor- someone you see on a daily basis, and you learn from them.”– Denzel Washington
Summary
Once you’ve found your role models, an amazing technique to use to help you achieve your goals quickly is to act as if you are them. What would they say, do, act like and how would they react to things? Additionally, how would they spend their day, how would they think about themselves and treat others, etc?
Really get into character and whenever you’re feeling unsure of yourself or a situation, switch into *insert your role model name here* mode! Put yourself in their shoes and act accordingly. I’m sure they wouldn’t let that negative comment get to them. Furthermore, they wouldn’t be afraid to act on their goals even if they didn’t have all the answers yet.
Or, even more powerful, act as if you have already reached their status and you’ve achieved all your goals. Picture how the future you would react to things and how you would speak to yourself and others.
Act as if you are the person who already has everything you want just like your role model who has achieved great things.
“A role model provides more than inspiration; his or her very existence is confirmation of possibilities one may have every reason to doubt, saying, Yes, someone like me can do this.”– Sonia Sotomayor
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