No matter how hard you try, how perfect you act, how much effort you put in, or how good you treat someone, etc if they’re not the right person for you it will never be enough. They won’t truly value or appreciate you fully. You will never be good enough for the wrong person. However, this doesn’t decrease your value or worth because they don’t appreciate you. It doesn’t make you any less of a person, they’re just not right for you.
It’s the most heart-breaking feeling in the world to lose the person that you thought loved you back unconditionally and that you thought you were going to have a future with and grow old with.
But if they let you go then they are clearly not the right person for you. Ultimately, your person couldn’t bear the thought of ever being without you. You deserve to be with someone who will always love, support, and stick by you no matter what.
You need to learn to let go, accept it, and move on. Moreover, stop thinking that there is something wrong with you or that you’re not good enough because they rejected you. The truth is, that they are not good enough for you. They are the wrong fit even if you thought they were your soulmate.
You will find your person, your soulmate, and someone even better than the person you’ve lost. You are always being guided toward who you’re meant to be with and where you’re meant to end up in life.
Even though it’s devastating now, you will get through it, come out stronger, and look back and be grateful that it didn’t work out. You will find an even better relationship with someone who values you equally.
You Will Never Be Good Enough for the Wrong Person
I know it sounds so cliché and it’s easy for other people to say but it honestly is true, you will never be good enough for the wrong person. Therefore, if someone leaves you then they are 100% not the right person for you.
Whatever is meant for you will not pass you by. Therefore, if you lose someone they weren’t meant to be in your life. The universe is making way for something better in your future.
The relationship that you’re meant to be in will be effortless, you won’t question or second guess their loyalty. Furthermore, you won’t have to put them before yourself and your happiness.
If you’re mourning the end of a relationship that you thought would never end, it doesn’t mean that you’ve failed, that you’re not good enough, deserving, or worthy. It just means that they weren’t the right match for you.
Your person is still out there! Start getting excited about the fact that if you loved the wrong person that much, how much more are you going to love and be loved by the right person!? How much happier will you be knowing that they feel the same way about you and couldn’t cope if they lost you?
“You may never good enough for some people, but you will always be the best for those who deserve you.”– Unknown
Summary
You will never be good enough for the wrong person. You can try to make it work and be perfect all the time. However, the wrong person is never going to value you as much as you value them.
You should never have to lose yourself and neglect yourself because you’re putting so much energy into trying to make someone else happy and love you. You need to make yourself your top priority and the right person will add to your life, enrich it, and never make you question your worth.
Stop thinking that there is something wrong with you or you’re not good enough for someone. No one is too good for you and you need to start realising that. You deserve everything you want and more in life. Therefore, you need to start making yourself happy to attract the right person into your life.
When people are removed from your life, it might be the last thing you ever wanted but everything always happens for a reason. Remember, you will find someone better in the future. They will treat you how you deserve and love you for all that you are.
“There will be times in your life when no matter what you do for some people, it will never be good enough. Do not change who you are just to seek someone else’s acceptance or approval. Always stay true to you. Those who truly love and respect you, will always be by your side.”– Unknown
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